Change of plans
Well, that didn't go as planned.
Long story short, our social worker did not visit yesterday. She thought our home study coordinator had reached out to us to cancel (for a whole, long, drawn-out reason that I'm not even going to bore you with...it all goes back to our weird immigration timing that has been the biggest hassle throughout the past two years) but that hadn't happened so we spent the afternoon standing around in a very clean house waiting. And waiting. And waiting.
And then I called her (I called!) Got the story. Bit my tongue. Rescheduled for next month.
I am frustrated. I am relieved. I feel like I'm not in control (I'm not.) I am so used to this kind of red tape nonsense at this point that I can't even remember what I was really like before we started this process. Adoption changes you and we haven't even adopted yet!
Thanks for the support you offered yesterday. You can do it again in a month :)
Long story short, our social worker did not visit yesterday. She thought our home study coordinator had reached out to us to cancel (for a whole, long, drawn-out reason that I'm not even going to bore you with...it all goes back to our weird immigration timing that has been the biggest hassle throughout the past two years) but that hadn't happened so we spent the afternoon standing around in a very clean house waiting. And waiting. And waiting.
And then I called her (I called!) Got the story. Bit my tongue. Rescheduled for next month.
I am frustrated. I am relieved. I feel like I'm not in control (I'm not.) I am so used to this kind of red tape nonsense at this point that I can't even remember what I was really like before we started this process. Adoption changes you and we haven't even adopted yet!
Thanks for the support you offered yesterday. You can do it again in a month :)
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